What NOT to Do When Reading Tarot Cards: 9 Common Mistakes to Avoid
What NOT to Do When Reading Tarot Cards: 9 Common Mistakes to Avoid
Reading tarot cards can be an insightful and transformative practice, but even experienced readers can fall into bad habits that cloud their interpretations. Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned tarot reader, avoiding these common mistakes will help you get clearer, more meaningful readings allowing you to build a deeper connection with the cards.
1. Forcing a Meaning That Doesn't Fit
One of the biggest mistakes readers make is trying to force a card’s meaning into a preconceived narrative. Tarot should provide guidance, not just confirmation of what you want to hear. Instead of twisting interpretations, take a moment to breathe and trust in the message that the cards reveal. Sometimes, they show us what we need, not what we expect.
2. Ignoring Reversed Cards (or Overemphasizing Them)
Some readers choose to ignore reversals altogether, which can limit the depth of a reading. On the other hand, placing too much emphasis on reversed cards as inherently negative can lead to unbalanced interpretations. Reversals often indicate internalized energy, delays, or a need for reflection; not just obstacles. Learning to embrace both upright and reversed cards as part of a complete message will enrich your readings.
3. Reading When Emotionally Overwhelmed
Reading tarot in a heightened emotional state can lead to misinterpretation. Strong emotions like anxiety, fear, or anger can cloud our ability to see messages objectively. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, take a moment to center yourself. Use deep breathing or a short meditation so that you can approach the reading with clarity and openness. See our guide on creating a sacred tarot space for more ideas.
4. Overcomplicating the Reading
Adding too many layers like astrology, numerology, Kabbalah, and more can make readings overwhelming. While these correspondences can enhance interpretation, they shouldn’t overshadow the core meaning of the tarot itself. If you ever feel stuck, return to the basics and allow the cards to speak for themselves. A clear and simple approach often yields the most profound insights.
5. Pulling More and More Cards for Clarity
If a reading feels unclear, some readers keep pulling additional cards in hopes of getting a more favorable or understandable message. This can create confusion rather than clarity. Instead, sit with the original spread, reflect on it, and allow the meaning to unfold naturally. Trust that the message is already present, you just need to take the time to understand it.
6. Asking the Same Question Repeatedly
Constantly asking the same question in different ways often leads to muddled messages. Tarot works best when approached with trust and patience. Instead of rephrasing the same question, try asking for guidance on how to move forward. This will help you receive a more actionable message rather than chasing the answer you want to hear.
7. Neglecting Your Intuition
It’s easy to rely too much on guidebooks or traditional meanings, but your intuition plays a vital role in tarot reading. If a card speaks to you in a way that differs from the book’s definition, trust your instincts. Developing this connection with your inner wisdom will make your readings more authentic and meaningful.
8. Failing to Ground and Protect Your Energy
Tarot readings involve energetic exchanges, so it’s important to ground yourself before and after readings. Practices like meditation, deep breathing, or setting an intention can help protect your energy and ensure a more accurate reading. Taking a moment to center yourself before shuffling the cards can make all the difference in maintaining clarity and focus.
9. Reading for Others Without Their Consent
Ethically, reading tarot for someone without their knowledge or consent is problematic. Tarot should be a tool for empowerment, not intrusion. If you’re curious about someone’s situation, ask for guidance on how you can navigate your relationship with them instead. Respecting boundaries is key to using tarot as a force for positive growth and understanding.
Final Thoughts
Avoiding these common pitfalls will make your tarot readings more accurate, insightful, and empowering. Tarot is a lifelong journey of learning and every reading whether clear or challenging is an opportunity to grow. Trust in yourself, your intuition, and the wisdom of the cards, and your practice will continue to evolve in a meaningful way.
Have you ever made any of these mistakes in your tarot journey? Share your experiences in the comments below—I’d love to support you in deepening your tarot practice!